Whether you're just starting a relationship, or looking to pique your long-term partner's interest, there are several ways to catch your boyfriend's eye and turn his head. Sure, every guy is different and will have his own personal set of likes and dislikes, but these simple gestures can help you make a big impression on your boy and capture his heart.
1. Manage some of his errands
Can you imagine what a smile you’ll bring on your boyfriend’s face if he came back home from work one day to find out that all his outstanding utility bills had been paid? But wait, we are not asking you to pay them from your account. You can impress your boyfriend by saying, “Honey, I’ve put together all your outstanding utility bills which total to $1700. Why don’t you give me the cash and I will manage the rest?” Do you see what we mean? This was just one example. Every man has a pile of such outstanding errands on the back of his mind which has been procrastinated over time. Offer some help and impress your boyfriend.
2. Reach your goals
Do you know why we are suggesting this? Because men are impressed by successful women. Being successful does not always mean having a great career. Here we are talking about the goals that you set for yourself. It can be as simple as ‘I want to be debt free in 3 months’ or ‘I want to lose 5 pounds over the next 2 months’ or ‘I’m going to save up to buy that dress I’ve always wanted’. You can impress your boyfriend by showing him that you too can set and achieve goals.
3. Talk about joint finances
We know this may sound boring, but all men like it when their girlfriends show concern about money matters. So the next time he says, “’Honey, let me buy you that expensive bag you’ve always wanted”, you can reply by saying, “Not right now darling. I’ve made a list of all the purchases you’ve made for me and I think it is time to cut down on our expenditure. Why not save some money for a trip that we can take later?” Your boyfriend will be very impressed.
4. Dress well
What would you say if we asked you, “What will you wear if your boyfriend called you right now and asked you to go out for a movie in 2 hours?” Would you just put on your favorite denims and a top? If you said yes, let us ask you another question. “Would you have dressed like this on your first few dates when you wanted to impress your boyfriend?” Do you see our point now? Dressing well to impress your boyfriend will never go out of vogue. He will like it if you look great when you go out with him. You are his eye candy after all, aren’t you?
5. Be there when he needs you
You can impress your boyfriend by tending to his needs. Here is a classic situation for you. Let’s suppose for a minute that you were going to go out to have dinner at a fancy restaurant with your boyfriend. You had to make reservations 3 months in advance. However, your boyfriend came back from work with a bad attitude and was fearful that he would lose his job the very next day. Would you still want him to take you out for dinner or would you say, “What happened, Honey? Let’s talk about it tonight. The dinner can happen any time later”? If you picked option 2, we are impressed and your boyfriend will be too. Do you see the point we are trying to drive home? Impress your boyfriend by showing that you will always be there when he needs you.
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